Because we’ve become a cookie cutter society, we are institutionalized. We have many institutions training and programming us to be like everyone else to fit into the mold. We have religions designing us to fit into the mold.
We have relationships and people designing us to find into the mold. We have books, television shows, movies, websites, forums, newspapers- designing us to find into the mold. It is everywhere and in everything. But there is an unlimited number of vibrations and an unlimited number of colors we know this because numbers themselves are infinite. The Universe itself is infinite.